If you are about to have a baby, then you might be wondering if you should add a nursing pillow (also known as a feeding pillow) to your shopping list. Your list consists of only “necessary” items, such as clothes for the baby, nursing bras for yourself, and the like. Is a nursing pillow a necessity? You know your parents did not use it. And you have seen everyone you know using regular pillows to prop up the baby while feeding. Then, maybe feeding pillows are just a fancy luxury? Read this article before you strike this item off your shopping list.
Investing in a feeding pillow can be a beneficial choice for new parents, especially those who plan to breastfeed or bottle-feed their baby. A feeding pillow is a specially designed cushion that provides support and comfort during feeding sessions. It helps to position the baby in a way that promotes proper latch and reduces strain on the parent’s arms, neck, and back.
In This Article
- What Are Feeding Pillows?
- Are Feeding Pillows Great Investments?
- How To Use Feeding Pillows?
- What Are The Benefits Of Using Feeding Pillows?
- Are There Any Problems Associated With Feeding Pillows?
- How To Shop For The Right Feeding Pillow?
- FAQ’s
What Are Feeding Pillows?
Feeding pillows often known as nursing pillows, come in a variety of styles and shapes. They go around your waist in order to give support to your back, neck, spine, and arms while nursing or feeding. They help to support the baby in the proper position while feeding. These pillows are not just meant for breastfeeding moms. Even moms who bottle-fed their babies can use them. Feeding pillows can be a big help if you are recovering from a C- section. They are easily available in the market.
Are Feeding Pillows Great Investments?
If you are a first-time mother, this might be news to you. If this is not your first child, you already know the drill. Breastfeeding your child is no walk in the park. It can be long (most lactation consultants say babies feed in 5 to 15 minutes, but in reality, some take up to 30 minutes per feeding) and it can be frequent (they have to be fed every 2 or 3 hours!).
So do not be surprised if you feel that all you do during a typical day (and night) is feed your child. Now ask yourself, is investing in a pillow that can help you during this long and frequent breastfeeding spell a good investment? We say yes!
How To Use Feeding Pillows?
Congratulations, you have decided to invest in a feeding pillow! This decision will definitely make your life a little easier and feeding time more relaxed. Now that you have the feeding pillow, here is how you should be using it to make the most of it:
- Find a quiet place Feeding your baby gives to time to bond with him. So make sure you have no distractions. Find a peaceful spot in your house to feed your baby
- Place the pillow on your lap Once you have decided where to feed your baby, just position rightly on your lap or around your waist
- Be comfortable Adjust the height of the pillow according to your comfort level. Most of the feeding pillows come with a belt or Velcro. It is up to you if you want to fasten the belt or Velcro securely and snugly
- Feed your baby Now you are ready to feed your baby. Keep your baby down onto the feeding pillow. The pillow will help you by supporting your baby. Proper positioning and support will help your baby latch on properly
In case you are bottle feeding the baby, your partner or any family member can also use this pillow to comfortably feed the baby
What Are The Benefits Of Using Feeding Pillows?
Feeding sessions can be lengthy, especially in the early weeks after birth. A feeding pillow provides a soft and supportive surface for both the baby and the parent, reducing the strain on their bodies. It helps maintain a comfortable and relaxed position, preventing fatigue and discomfort during feedings.
5 key benefits of using a feeding pillow are:
- Good latch: Did you know that if your baby does not latch well, he will not get enough milk and you will end up with sore and cracked nipples? A good feeding pillow of adequate height can help the baby get a good latch to a great extent
- Protects C-section stitches: C-section moms often find it painful to breastfeed the child as their stitches become strained. Feeding pillows can take the pressure off the stitches and make nursing a less stressful activity
- No more reflux: A feeding pillow will ensure that your baby is propped up correctly. This will reduce the instances of reflux, which consequently reduces colic and other gastro-related issues
- Support during pregnancy: If you are planning to invest in a feeding pillow, it might be a good idea to buy it in your last trimester. This is because a feeding pillow can double up as a pregnancy pillow. You can use it to support your tummy in the night so as to get a good night’s sleep
- Sit-ups: By the time your child is 4 to 6 months old, you can use the feeding pillow to support her in a sitting position without causing any strain to her back
Are There Any Problems Associated With Feeding Pillows?
While feeding pillows can be beneficial, they also have some potential disadvantages to consider. Some of the problems with respect to using feeding pillows are:
- Dependency Using a feeding pillow regularly may lead to a dependency on it during feedings. This reliance on the pillow for positioning and support can make it challenging to feed the baby without it, especially when away from home or in situations where the pillow is not available.
- Universal fit They come in only one size, so there is a chance it might not fit you
- Backaches This is not specific to feeding pillows. It is applicable even for normal pillows. If you lean forward a lot during nursing, you will end up with bad back aches
- Bad latch While most babies find a nursing pillow comfortable and get a good latch when using it, at times, they might not take to the feeding pillows well. And unfortunately, you have no way of predicting if they will like it or not
How To Shop For The Right Feeding Pillow?
Keep the following tips in mind as you start looking for a feeding pillow.
- Nursing pillows can be used for not just breastfeeding but for formula feeding as well. In view of this, consider buying a large pillow so that even a bigger baby can fit on it. This will increase the usability of the pillow
- Most nursing pillows come in a “C” shape or “O” shape. The “O” shaped pillows can be strapped around your waist. This gives more support and balance. But if you are buying an “O” shaped pillow, make sure you buy a size that can fit around your waist right after delivery (you might still have a bulging tummy then). “C” shaped pillows have a universal fit
- Make sure the cover of the pillows can be removed and cleaned easily
- Pick a material that is soft, comfortable, and preferably organic as your baby will come in contact with it very frequently
Have you ever used a feeding pillow? Do let us know your experience.
FAQ’s
1. How Many Months Can I Use A Feeding Pillow?
A feeding pillow can typically be used from birth until around 4 to 6 months of age when the baby starts to gain more head control and can feed in a more upright position.
2. Is It Bad For A Baby To Sleep On The Feeding Pillow?
Feeding pillows are designed for use during feeding sessions and are not intended for safe sleep. It’s important to follow safe sleep practices and place the baby on a firm, flat surface, such as a crib or bassinet, to reduce the risk of suffocation or SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome).
